So, if you want more than supportive, positive, and fun vibes from your future husband-if you want regular and decent sex on top of all that-don’t marry this guy. Whatever the deal is with your fiancé, SORDID, weddings are not famous for reviving sexually moribund relationships. (For the record: I’m not suggesting that freysexuality isn’t a legitimate sexual orientation- freysexuals already have their own pride flag, and we all know how high that bar is-but I am suggesting freysexuals shouldn’t make sexually-excusive commitments to romantic partners or demand sexually-exclusive commitments from romantic partners.) And if he only just realized it, he should’ve accepted your invitation to renegotiate the terms of your commitment, i.e., take you up on your offer to have an ethically non-monogamous relationship. Simply put, if your fiancé is freysexual and knew that about himself-even if he didn’t know there was a word/bespoke sexual orientation for him-he should’ve disclosed that to you. Being freysexual doesn’t excuse your fiancé’s dishonesty, SORDID, assuming he is freysexual. Basically, love is erotic kryptonite to the freysexual. Oh, and there’s a new type of long-term, committed, romantic partner out there who doesn’t wanna fuck people they love: freysexuals.Ī freysexual may love their romantic partner and wanna marry that person and make a life with them, SORDID, but a freysexual doesn’t wanna and/or can’t fuck someone they have strong and/or any feelings for. Is this actually a thing? Only being physically attracted to an anonymous, impersonal, meaningless stranger? My next question is: Is there hope for a future with Rick when he is lying to me-a GGG partner who wanted to work through this-and also lying to himself? I think I know the answer, but: am I better off alone? First, is it possible for someone to be incapable of physical intimacy when there is love involved? I’m no expert, but it strikes me as troubling that Rick can’t make love with me-going so far as to blame it on hormonal shifts-when it’s not biological at all he just prefers to jerk off with strangers. My questions are both general and specific to me.
After talking with a friend, she confided in me that Rick’s ex had discovered dozens of sexting convos on Rick’s phone with strangers when they were together. He was apparently going into our spare bedroom or bathroom to make and send these videos-sometimes when I was home, sometimes when I was waiting in bed for him. He admitted to exchanging sexy pics and videos with more than 20 women on the internet over the last few years. After some mild questioning, his story unraveled. We are not in an open relationship, even though I’d offered that as a possible solution to our sex woes. Outside of sex, our relationship is supportive, positive, and fun.įast forward: I recently learned that Rick has a profile on an online dating app. I also made the pact with myself that I could live with only having sex 4-5 times a year because Rick brought so much “good” to the table. I loved him and was legitimately concerned.
I encouraged him to get bloodwork done, thinking maybe it was a decline in testosterone or something.
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I have gently initiated conversations about how to spice it up-sexy dates, sex toys, new positions, even non-monogamy-but Rick never took me up on any of my suggestions. Our sex went from passionate, fun, and frequent early in the relationship to nearly nonexistent now. Let’s call him “Rick.” We’ve been together for five years and engaged for two. this comic is meant for an 18+ only audience and is about torturing & murdering a waiter (?)Įxplicit sexual content, transphobic sentiments (reacted to understandably but not appropriately), sexual assault/rape, substance use, ethnic slurs and anti-arab racism from a middle aged white guy (reacted to very appropriately), discussion and depictions of alcoholism and alcohol-induced psychosis, discussion of grief and grief processing (or lack thereof), discussion of incest fantasy (instances of literal incest not depicted, mixed reactions from different parties), body horror, gore/torture, salirophilia/mysophilia (semen, blood, saliva, vomit, sweat, HUMAN SHIT ALERT), decomposing human bodies.I am a 37-year-old heterosexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a het cis male. Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.īARBATUS: story, preliminary pages, letteringĢ92 pages + extras.